
From my House to Yours, Best Wishes to you & yours this Holiday season & all year through.
• Happy Hanukkah •
+ Merry Christmas +
^ Joyous Kwanzaa ^
* Happy New Years*
When my Dad’s Mom died in February of 2012, I weighed 303lbs & change at my Pain doctor’s office in Scarborough. I didn’t like that. So I made a few changes, started to eat less and getting low levels or simple but regular exercise Very slowly, I started to loose weight by the time I moved back to Oshawa in May 2016, I’d lost 20-30 pounds.
Since then, I’ve made alot more changes and have lost more.. but I have an announcement to make that I am super proud of.
On Tuesday, I stepped on the scale at my pain doctor’s office in Oshawa (the Scarborough & Oshawa scales differ by 0.1 lb) I was stunned by the number. 203.0 lbs
That’s 100lbs!!! I’ve lost a third of my size!! Yay me!
Am I done? No.. I do plan on loosing another 23lb.. my final expected goal is 180lb, where I was at the end of high school.. If I loose more than that, but not too much more – I still wanna keep my curves & don’t want to loose my boobs!
Edit: On September 30, I also hit my second goal of getting back into Onederland – where the first digit of my weight is a 1, so under 200lb. Less than 20lb to go.
While none of them are biologically mine, they are the closest I will ever have to children & by extension, grandchildren.
One lives with me. She is my life. If you read my post “She Saved me“, you’ll see why I love her so much. My absolute closest child is my Furbaby. She is 8½ years old.
My oldest 2 are my best friend’s children. Since I’ve known her since we were 16-17, I’ve know the girls all their lives. They are my oldest God Children & my bff put a clause in her will that I must have unfettered access to the girls should she pass away (I’ve rarely been in a financial place to support a family which is the only reason she did not give me custody). I have changed diapers, fed them, helped them learn to tie shoes, helped them ride a bike, taken them out for Halloween, celebrated birthdays, holidays & other milestones, take them out on adventures, disciplined them, played Santa – wrapping gifts & stuffing stockings (plus wrapping paper tube sword fights), celebrated milestones with them, mourned with them, did girl guides & Scouting with them, supported them, loved them.
You know when you’ve been in their life forever when one day you show up on an older sweatshirt, the child (well, she’s 27 now) looked at me & says “Didn’t you used to have another sweatshirt like that?” Of course her mom & I make eye contact & burst into laughter.. it was the same sweatshirt! Yes, I am a bit of a hoarder.
in addition, the younger of the two has a little boy, making her Mom a grandmother at 41, & me a God Grandmother? Or Grand Godmother? He just knows me as Kelli, Nana’s best friend
My first God child, before my God daughters cuz they were baptized older, is the son of friends of mine that I was close to when he was born. Was MC at their wedding. Ironically, I am now friends with him, not her since they split. Unfortunately, she turned her son from his family in Ontario so not even his Dad hears from him. While he isn’t in my life, I think of him & I know he remembers me as the Veggie Tales Lady cuz if give him Veggie Tales movie for Christmas, Easter & his birthday for several years in a row.
Edit: Apparently, he is become someone who I am not interested in associating with. He’s been living with his mother & has taken on her values, perceptions & beliefs. Unfortunately, his mother & I had a series of escalating disagreements, and she has turned into a total Snowflake. So with him becoming his mother, it looks like I only have 6.
My last three kids are my sister’s kids . Like with my bff’s children I started again with diapers, baby sitting, taxi service, arts & crafts, sporting events, music recitals, Scout meetings, more Halloween, birthdays, holidays, more adventures, support, respect & love. My sister recently asked me if her & her hubby pass that I would take custody of her son, my 4th & final GodChild. (Not the other 2 cuz they’re of age)..
As you can see I have alot of children in my life.. All of them important to me, whether they know it or not. There are other children in my life, but these 7, I’d do almost anything for, like any Mom would (well should) do.
& that is why I have 7 correction, 6 Kids.
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